I have a serious question for you today. I really wonder at times if I am living in my own little world, or in an alternate universe? Do you ever feel like that? I’ll tell you what has made me feel that way.
Many Challenges After Death Of A Spouse
I hope this article will help people who haven’t been through this, to understand some of the challenges widowers and widowers face after death of a spouse. I also hope it will validate some of the things that you might be experiencing if you have lost your spouse or partner.
Discovering Secrets After Death of a Loved One
In my work with widows and others who are grieving the loss of loved ones, clients have reported the discovery of some difficult secrets when going through the possessions of …
Listening to Your Inner Survivor
Do you listen to and trust your inner survivor? Why is that important?
Have you ever felt you lived in a world in which you could predict and count on very little? I think we all have felt that way at times. More and more people are feeling that way right now, sadly.
There’s Covid-19, global warming, constant natural disasters, terrorists, unemployment, and much suffering all over. It can sometimes seem too depressing to read or watch the news, let alone figure out how to get past our own personal baggage and problems.
Lockdown Loneliness
This post about “lockdown loneliness” is for you if you live alone, regardless of the reason you do. It was written for widows in a group I run, but certainly applies to anyone without a companion now who is self-isolating and feeling the effects in this era of Covid 19. Even those who have someone else in the household may find this useful.
Grief Help: Disposing of Your Loved One’s Stuff
When people are grieving deeply, they still associate the loved one’s belongings with him or her as a person. Eventually they come to realize they are only things. The things may evoke important memories or feelings that make people continue to feel sentimental about them. They really do not represent the person you loved and have lost.
Autumn & Life-A Blogbit
If I have learned anything over the years, it is that I must concentrate as much as I can on the colors in front of me and not on the rainy and the dim days.
Life After Loss and Trauma
I think we heal to an extent but perhaps never completely. We are forever changed.
Grief Work: Dream Messages
Our messages from dreams may be an important part of our grief journey or grief work. The grief journey is usually not one that has an easy-to-spot final destination on a map.
How To Change Your Lousy Luck
Do you tell yourself you have lousy luck? Do you want to know how to change (at least some of) your “lousy luck”?
It’s time to “fess up”. I will if you will! Have you convinced yourself that nothing goes your way? Do you think it is really bad luck that plagues you, or is it at least partly your own attitude?
